Showing posts with label Mother's Day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mother's Day. Show all posts

Sunday, May 8, 2016

Mother’s Day


Like there is only one day each year that one is a mother?

Being of an analytical mind I had to trace the origins: apparently the Greeks already had a Spring festival dedicated to the maternal goddesses, honoring Rhea, wife of Cronus, who was the mother of many Deities in Greek mythology.

The Romans also enjoyed a Spring festival called Hilaria dedicated to Cybele – a mother goddess. Side thought: is this where we get the adjective hilarious – from how that festival might have been perceived?

Early Christians celebrated a Mother’s Day of sorts when they honored Mary, the mother of Jesus on the fourth Sunday of Lent.

The British had a “Mothering Sunday” where even the servants were encouraged to contact their mothers, but our modern day celebrations come mainly from Julia Ward Howe (1872) and then more formally from Anna Jarvis who – although she never married nor had children – worked to honor her mother and together with supporters lobbied politicians until Woodrow Wilson signed a Joint Resolution establishing the second Sunday in May as Mother’s Day. He did this on May 8, 1914!

Meanwhile many other nations have an official celebration with the date varying so if your kids miss one (one son is in France and they celebrate it in a couple of weeks so am betting that he won’t have remembered: the other will wake up to the fact tomorrow most likely) they can always use someone else’s.

Or, if you are lucky like me, they don’t wait for just the one day of the year but are more spontaneous in their thanks and remembrance of the fact that you are their mother.

So not to reproduce the same thoughts as last year, here’s the link to the blog I wrote about being a mother.


With a newer photo of the two men who allow me the honor of being a mother on Mother's Day, as well as the rest of the 364 days of the year.

 
Christmas 2015

Sunday, May 11, 2014

A twist on Mother’s Day tributes or...


How much it has meant to me being a mom.

I know that Mother’s Day is all about the mom and when mine was alive I made sure that I sent her a card (and hopefully conveyed to her throughout her lifetime and all my visits, how much she meant to me).

We were not a hugging, kissing, flowery words type of family – something that I have had to work on as an adult and mother (not always successfully), but this Mother’s Day one son will be in Africa and the other in Peru so instead of expecting them to be showering me with flowers, cards and the like, this is a tribute to them.

I still am not quite sure how I became so privileged as to have two sons who not only try not to harm anyone or anything but actually actively seek to help others. 

No, they are not always paragons of virtue, but their main stance in life looks outwards, considers the happiness of those around them and in their professional lives leads to more helping (volunteering, humanitarian missions) than many (myself included).

So, sons, I am grateful to have you and wish you only that, which will allow you to fulfill your “life’s mission” as you see it – may this Mother’s Day let you feel – albeit from a distance – all the love and respect that I have for you.

“Bisous”
Mom

Alexandrine B, Scott S-L, Julia S-L, Sven S-L Sept.28, 2013