The last bit
added on just so all would know that this is not a blog about different types
of shoes, nor about acquiring, wearing or otherwise worshipping shoes.
At my age it’s
all about the comfort, but I was very pleased the other day to have finally
found a pair of walking shoes that are actually more feminine than my usual
black or white. These have roses printed on them, making me cheerier just by
putting them on.
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new sneakers |
No, it is about
the famous Indian saying that teaches empathy for another:
“Never criticize a man until you've walked a mile in his
moccasins.” Or sometimes “Great Spirit, help me never to judge another until I
have walked in his moccasins.”
Whatever the case may be, we would all do well
to keep this saying foremost in our minds as none can know the path another
walks: some complain so one can rather guess; others recount in great detail
their current trials or health problems (and we all promised when we were
younger to never follow in our mother’s, father’s, aunt’s or uncle’s way of
talking only about health problems, yet we find ourselves now doing so –ah age
is a great help in becoming “normal”); yet there are many who silently carry
their burdens, who cheerfully face disaster, who calmly deal with tragedy – all
without a word to indicate the trials that they are enduring.
But I actually digress – what brought this on
was a trip to the storage space above the garage (looking for the screws, nuts
and bolts belonging to the bed frame that younger son has transferred to his
new flat) – didn’t find a trace of anything that could be use for the bed
frame, but did come across a wonderful wooden mold that same son had done as an
art project at some point – of his shoe.
If I tried to walk even a few steps in either
of my son’s shoes, first of all they would fall off, secondly I would probably
trip and sprain and ankle and thirdly I would get nowhere so guess I will have
to exercise philosophical “walking in their shoes” instead of a true physical
try.
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the wooden "mold" |
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my foot in his footstep! |